As i am driving along the street today, i happened to catch a glimpse of a middle-aged lady, dressed in a flowery shirt and her hair curled into a messy bundle.as my car neared her, i was quite surprised that she is crying while walking very fast, and no one seems to notice that in the midst of everyone, one poor lady is actually in the worst of her mood.

Emotions, a very unique feelings that we felt at different time and place. My topic today shall not revovle about her crying, but rather, the courage of people to actually show it out.

Some people tend to scoff at others who cry over small matters, or loses their temper if things do not turn out in their favour. They may claimed that those people are emotional or weak at heart, unable to suppress and control their emotions, and letting it draw all over their face.

However, i am actually quite admirable for those who actually have the emotional courage to do so, for holding back your tears just when you are sad, but do not wish to be scoffed at, adds nothing to relieve the person of their depression. Similarly, holding back one's temper just when you are angry, but do not wish to be scoffed at or being feared, adds nothing to relieve the anger and it may even worsen to a blow-up whereby the mind will be rendered blank and horrendous stuffs may happen.

When i was young, i still recalled thaT i cried way too many times. But after i start to grow up, i realize that eventually, crying doesn't solve anything and what really helps me is to seek a direct solution. Thus, you can now see me acting out and dishing out commands to control the overall situation if problems arise, rather than sit by the side of the kerb and start bawling over the injustice of life.

In overall sense, do not discriminate those people who are less able to control their emotions. Their emtional struggle is bad enough for them, and it is really evil if we are dealing more damage to their emotional pride by passing some unfriendly comments about them. Thus, adopt a neutral stand whenever someone start crying or yelling at you. Think through what they are saying, and seek a direct solution to help them. Twist their mind to an image that they may not see it themselves, and try to convince them that the perfect solution, which is the image created, shall be the one they are seeking. Help them if you must, for some really need you to set up the platform for them to initiate the first step. Be their activation energy to exceed the threshold to help themselves. All in all, this is part of an important interactions with your fellow humans.

aLm0nD~cUsTaRd blogged @ 6:51 AM